It’s funny — well, maybe annoying is a better word — how one of the so-called trappings of success is criticism. Get up in front of a crowd to speak, launch a website, develop and launch a product, start a business, and you’re in front of people. And that means you open yourself up to criticism.
I’ve been meaning to write about this since we talked about it together a month ago at Pam Slim and Charlie Gilkey‘s LiftOff 4 retreat in Portland. The subject that night was the negative thinking, the worries, the fear and the doubts that are part of launching a business. Somebody brought up this problem of dealing with critics. We talked about it, and agreed, basically, that it comes with the territory.
Reminds me of the cliche: If you can’t stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen.
What I like what my daughter Megan said in 5 things I learned From Haters, on her Part-time Perfectionist blog. This is point one of five:
If you have haters, it means you’re on to something. Think of all the cliches I can spout about this: the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. All press is good press. Haters gonna hate. Trolls gonna troll.
Success generates detractors. Expect it. It comes with the territory.
(Image: Daliborlev/Flickr CC)
[…] Brace Yourself. Success Brings Detractors. […]
[…] Confidence and StyleAn app is developed to help customers shop at flea markets. Tim Berry says success brings detractors. If swag now means confidence and style, this fan has it. Wait, this waiter has even more!Your […]